It is said that a woman of her stature must be in search of a man; This could not be further from the truth!
She needs to acquire more wealth, more status and all the nice things, but a man?? Nah!! This is not to say she doesn’t get lonely or long for the touch of a man, she does! However she wants to love herself so exhaustively and use up all her talents such that when God comes to take her she would have used up all her talents!
She does want love though but not the kind that boxes you in and puts everything in a category. She wants to travel the world alone and know that her partner is waiting for her at home or is on some quest to find himself as well.
So in a world of boxes and labels and categories she looks and wanders not in search of a man but in search of a full life!!